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Notes on a Sweater

by Kelly

You’ve probably heard about the Obamas trip to Buckingham Palace recently. It’s been getting a lot of press – but oddly enough, the media is obsessed with the gifts exchanged (Obama gave the Queen of England an Ipod complete with Broadway selections) and, even worse, what Michelle Obama was wearing. As if there wasn’t enough coverage of the First Lady’s wardrobe already…

However, not everyone is happy with Michelle Obama’s J. Crew sweater-set. Apparently, famous designer Oscar de la Renta has admonished Michelle for wearing a sweater in the presence of the Queen.

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Here are some quotes from the fashion designer:

“’You don’t…go to Buckingham Palace in a sweater,’ Oscar de la Renta told Woman’s Wear Daily regarding Mrs. Obama’s decision to wear a cardigan over an Isabel Toledo-designed dress for the private meeting.

De la Renta also said the first lady — who often sports relatively affordable American brands — should broaden her wardrobe and seize an opportunity to spur the flailing fashion industry.

“American fashion right now is struggling,” he said. “I think I understand what [Obama and her advisers] are doing, but I don’t think that is the right message at this particular point.”

“I don’t object to the fact that Mrs. Obama is wearing J. Crew to whatever because the diversity of America is what makes this country great. But there are a lot of great designers out there. I think it’s wrong to go in one direction only,” he added.”

My first reaction? Who died and made Oscar de la Renta an expert on etiquette? Just because he creates dresses that only the richest of the rich can afford doesn’t make him an authority on class and good manners. It seems like he is perpetuating the antiquated notion that those with wealth automatically have class – although anyone who has watched the Real Housewives reality show might beg to differ.

So Mr. de la Renta, our First Lady didn’t wear a designer dress to visit the Queen of England. Remind me why that matters? Last I heard, the monarch of England only performed ceremonial functions…it’s the Prime Minister who is the actual head of the government. So, by de la Renta’s logic, one must dress up when meeting aging figureheads. Damn, guess Michelle missed that memo.

oscardelarenta4What really irks me about de la Renta’s statement, however, is the idea that the fashion industry is “hurt” by the economic crisis and needs financial support. Oh, I’m sorry that Americans don’t want to spend their hard-earned cash on your luxury (read: useless) goods anymore. I’m sure that you’re struggling now to keep a roof over your head and groceries in your fridge. Here, why don’t we all go out right now and order a custom de la Renta dress. Then Joe the Plumber will don a tuxedo when he goes to work, and Sally the autoworker will wear her haute couture on the assembly line. Makes a whole lot of sense, doesn’t it?

- Dollface

So, what do you think? Should Michelle become a “better” role model for fashionistas by wearing more designer goods? Or do you find de la Renta’s comments ridiculous (compounded by the fact that CNN and I devoted so much time weighing in on this matter!)

P.S. I mean no personal offense to the Queen of England by referring to her as an aging figurehead. I just call ‘em how I see ‘em. Plus, I’m fairly certain that she was so distracted by her new iPod, she didn’t even notice Michelle’s sweater. ;-)

Open Thread: Life Expectations

by Kelly

What are your life expectations? So many of us want the white picket fence, the kids, the car and the husband or wife. While it’s great to dream big and think positively about the future, how strongly do you hold onto your expectations? Are you setting yourself up for disappointment or would you rather try and fail than to have never tried at all?

Since I’m plagued by writer’s block lately, I’d like to have an open thread discussing…you! What are your goals? Did you think your life would turn out a certain way, but when you look back you realize you’re somewhere you never expected to be?

Personally, my life has taken the course I’d expected (so far). I’d always dreamed of going to college, and now I’m almost in my senior year. After graduation, I hope to get a great career and find a significant other…but what if it doesn’t go as planned? My mother cautions me not to count on anything too much, because life can take unexpected turns. For example, she never expected to raise my brother and me as a single mother, but divorce happens and life happens. I’m still hoping my life turns out the way I want it to, but I try to keep my mind open to the many different possibilities.

What are your thoughts?

I was inspired by this article about Michelle Obama in which she discusses her career & life plans and how her career took second place to Barack’s goal to become President. She is happy with how things turned out, but it made me think about personal expectations and plans. At what point are someone else’s plans more important than yours? Are you willing to make that sacrifice?

Guess I’m just having a reflective Valentine’s Day :-) (Speaking of which, Happy Singles Awareness Day!)

xo,
Dollface

End of the Week Links

by Kelly

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–> Racialicious has a pertinent article about…wait for it: Michelle Obama’s ass. Or rather, why the media should be focusing on Michelle’s more important attributes (like, her achievements? her brain?). The post also briefly discusses the history of attitudes towards women of color & their appearance, with emphasis on the sexual appeal of the derriere.

–> I stumbled upon a new blog I enjoy, entitled Mom Grind. Check out two of her articles: “I Read a Vogue Article and Now my Brain Hurts” and “20 Ways to Help Your Child Develop a Positive Self Image“. I’m not a parent at the moment but the article is useful and enlightening nonetheless.

–> Dolly recently posted about whether men can be called feminists. Some interesting related articles are “Why Men Should Care About Gender Stereotypes” from The F Word and “Boys Needed” at Splice Today, which is an article about why we need male voices in feminism. Thought-provoking reads for all genders!

–> A guide to holding a Pro-choice counter-protest at a local clinic that provides abortion services. Got this link at The Coat Hanger Project.

–> An eye-opening account of one’s journalists trip on to the Ukraine in search of a mail-order bride. He went with a group of men who paid for a guide to take them around to “socials” where they interact with hundreds of young women who may be interested in getting engaged to an American man (in exchange for wealth, etc). I found the article fascinating.

Hope you had a great weekend. – Dollface

End of the Week Links

by Kelly

berwick1Since I’ve gotten a lot of positive (and some ignorant) responses to the “Why I Became a Feminist” series (check out Part 1 and Part 2 if you haven’t already), I decided to have a feminist blogaround this Sunday instead of my usual miscellaneous links. Here are some passionate yet well-reasoned essays by feminist bloggers and writers. I’m sure you’ll enjoy them, and maybe even learn a few things.

–> This fascinating and timely article entitled “Sexism in the Workplace” by reporter Harriet Rubin explains how women in the United States have made strides in the workplace — but these advances are now in a slow decline. The writer explains that while women now make 70-something cents to men’s dollar, they have plateaued at this figure. I highly recommend this article, not only because it’s an excellent analysis of the subtleties of workplace sexism on the managerial level, but it proves unequivocally that sexism is very much alive in our society and is a problem we must address.


“Heidrick & Struggles is one of the world’s top executive-search firms. Senior chairman and chief headhunter Gerry Roche groaned when I told him why I was calling. “There isn’t sexism anymore,” he said. “Or if there is, you can’t rush things. Maybe it will take another generation to make things right.”

He told me, “Boards are always asking me to bring them women candidates.” But he still places nearly six times as many men as women. Of his top 10 recruiters, five are female. So why only one woman on his nine-person board? “That’s a good question,” he said.

Catalyst calculates that, at this rate, it will take 73 years for women to achieve parity with men at the board level. 2081, here we come!”

–> Are you a feminist? According to this woman you are. Read this powerful but slightly controversial piece about the universality of feminism.

“It is about political, economic, and social equality of the sexes, and it is about claiming that definition on its own terms, instead of qualifying it because you don’t want anyone to think that you don’t shave your pits. It is about saying that you are a feminist and just letting the statement sit there, instead of feeling a compulsion to modify it immediately with “but not, you know, that kind of feminist” because you don’t want to come off all Angry Girl.”

–> You may not realize it, but a woman’s hair is a loaded concept. This article unpacks the argument that women must shave to be beautiful, while this great post over at Womanist Musings discusses the problematic coverage of Michelle Obama’s hair by the mainstream media.

“No matter how brightly colored the ads or how cheerily the model smile while holding a razor to their tanned leg, ads for razors at their most basic telling women there is something wrong with one of their natural functions: hair growth. “Advertising aimed at women works by lowering our self-esteem,” writes Wolf. The bottom line of razor marketing is selling women a product by which they may change themselves.”

…and before someone says “what about the menz?”:

“In the last few years, there has been a rise of a hairless male aesthetic, like Versace models with clean-shaven faces and chests; but, with such high percentages of women shaving, it is clear that the hairless beauty standard applies to women of all classes, whereas male body hairlessness seems to be predominantly at a haute couture level.”

–> Sexual harassment is a pervasive problem in Egypt — take a moment to read one woman’s account of her personal experiences with this problem, and then check out Mona Eltahawy’s other thought-provoking articles, such as “Fear of an Obama Planet” and “A hymen, a veil and France”

“There is no law criminalizing sexual harassment in Egypt, and police often refuse to report women’s complaints. And when it is the police themselves who are harassing women, then clearly women’s safety is far from a priority in Egypt.”


There are plenty more articles that I stumbled across in the past few days, and be sure to check back next week for the next batch of links. Hope you all had a great weekend!

- Dollface

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Round Two: McCain Has Fallen…and He Can’t Get Up

by Harlequin

So we have debate number 2. The general consensus is that John McCain lost because he didn’t win; so Barack Obama won by default?

I don’t rely too much on polls, but it seems that McCain had to knock Obama out in this one just to regain an even balance. I did think Obama focused on the issues and gave specific examples of his policies, but I honestly wasn’t extremely impressed by either candidate (check out their report cards).  I felt as if the debate evolved into a bickering match over records, policies, and of course, character. We had McCain talking about the “candies and goodies” used to entice Senators such as “that one” (Obama) into voting for certain bills, and then we had Obama talking about how McCain has been “cheerleading” Bush through the war (although I have to admit, I did laugh on that last one). There seemed to be too much of a back and forth, with each pointing out the hypocritical voting records of the other – I ended up not knowing what was the truth and what was a crock of crap.

Not to mention the snide comments about time constraints. Yes, Obama talked a lot, so much so that he often went over the time limit. Honestly, I know there are time limits imposed for a reason, and the campaigns previously agree to them in the name of fairness. But at the same time, is it really necessary to keep to the 90 minute time frame? This is the presidential election for Christ’s sake, and I would hope that the candidates have enough to say to make the debate longer than a feature film. I like Obama as a debater for firmly yet politely emphasizing his stance instead of being shut up and sat down by a clock. McCain seemed as if he was brown nosing not only the moderator but also the audience: “I am going to stop, and you didn’t even have to wait,” McCain told moderator Tom Brokaw at one point. Good job, Johnny, you showed us Americans that you can follow the same rules they institute into beauty pageants…hmm, Sarah Palin has taught you a lot.

Still, there were a lot of important points brought up despite the childish bickering. One aspect of the debate that I found particularly interesting was the discussion of the Iraq War and the Vietnam War. One audience member at the town hall asked a question about whether or not the U.S. should go into countries neighboring Iraq, which was a tactic considered during the Vietnam War. In the 1960s, the U.S. chose not to enter Cambodia or Laos, and in fact a communist regime came to power in the state of “Pathet Lao.” The debate of today mainly involves Afghanistan and Pakistan, two countries that Obama believes we should be focusing on. While McCain argues that Obama is “telegraphing his punches” on live television (saying the Democratic candidate is broadcasting his plans to “attack Pakistan”), the former military hero quotes one of his own “heroes” when he declares his foreign policy strategy: “speak softly but carry a big stick” (Teddy Roosevelt, by the way). Now, I do not know much abut military strategy or foreign policy, but I would think that talking would be a bit more important. Both candidates emphasize that they need to gain support of Pakistan’s people, just as the U.S. government had unsuccessfully tried to gain the support of the South Vietnamese. Still, McCain wants to be diplomatic in a way that can hide America’s true motives; we have to be tough and carry that big stick, right? On the other hand, Obama says that America needs to “stop coddling” Pakistan. He did not mean we should jump in there and attack them (as if we never do that…), but it was his way of letting them know where America stands. Pakistan might be angry, but they ain’t gonna hear us if we speak too softly, and darn tootin’ right they aren’t gonna like us too much if we act nice and then whip out our big sticks (come on, McCain, save that for Cindy).

There were sharp disagreements not only about the war in Iraq, but also about America’s position in the world. Not only do most people agree that Obama won the debate, but they also believe that he presented a stronger foreign policy stance than his opponent.  McCain emphasized our status as the shining light of the free world, noting that our country is obliged to at least try to intervene in world struggles. Obama, on the other hand, said that while it is a moral duty to intervene in cases of genocide, there are other situations (I am assuming he means politically) in which the U.S. has to determine if, in fact, their presence will benefit anyone or bring about any sort of resolution. This seems like a legitimate enough foreign policy for me, and it probably would not have gotten us into Iraq in the first place. Sure, I want genocide and ethnic cleansing in Darfur to end, but I don’t think the U.S. should go around policing governments that we do not approve of, like Iraq. Like Obama said, we can not do it all. There is always going to be oppression and struggle in the world, but we can not intervene everywhere. Especially during this economic crisis, Americans should be focusing first and foremost on our country. Even McCain said that in order to have a strong military, you need to have a strong economy as a foundation. Well, maybe now is a good time to focus on the root of the problem instead of spending billions of dollars in a country where we really do not seem to be getting anywhere.

There is so much more I could talk about (economic and energy policies in particular) but what did everyone else think of the debate?

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Marx Gets the Last Laugh: Is Capitalism Failing?

by Kelly

The past week has been a rough one for the U.S. economy. Several major investment banks went bankrupt and some companies, such as AIG, got bailed out by the government to the tune of 85 billion dollars. (It shouldn’t have to be said that the taxpayers are paying for this). In addition, the government has nationalized major mortgage companies Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac.


Now, I’m not a Marxist, but this is sounding awfully familiar. In my economics and government classes, I’ve read excerpts of Das Kapital and The Communist Manifesto. One of Marx’s most basic theories is his notion that history has progressed through several stages of class struggle: from feudalism to capitalism, to the eventual failure of capitalism. He claimed that our world would end up with socialism and that this would mark the end of history (since we’d have perfected our society). Now, I’m not really so sure socialism is the answer. However, the past few days have exemplified what Marx warns in his works: capitalism is failing.

Marx believed that capitalism was inherently flawed, so much so that it would lead to its own destruction. He explained this by claiming capitalism operates through a pattern of business cycles. These business cycles are exhibited by relative prosperity for a period of time, then a decline and recession – in other words, boom and bust. Marx maintained that each business cycle would be more and more devastating, until finally culminating in one disastrous collapse. This would then leave the world (or individual countries) ready for socialism as a replacement of the failed capitalistic system. With the recent failure of major investment banks, and the warnings from some modern economists that FDIC-protected banks and other companies/institutions are going to fail next, it appears that Marx might have the last laugh.

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We cannot afford to let our current recession turn into another depression. We must, as a country, find a way to overcome this financial crisis. And while I’m not saying we should throw in our hats and purchase Communist Manifestos for our school children, I think elements of socialism would be a beneficial addition to our economic practices. Even now we are not a perfectly capitalistic society: our markets are not free from government regulation and intervention. Adam Smith’s invisible hand has left the building, so to speak.

I argue that we should model our economy after those of Sweden, Denmark, and other European countries. These countries have a social democracy, in the sense that they democratically reform their economy so that there is more of a “welfare state,” or benefits provided by the government. Sure, citizens of these countries may pay more taxes, but they have the assurance that their taxes are being distributed more meaningfully and appropriately than Americans do. (Also, for everyone who hears “welfare state” and immediately has negative connotations, keep in mind that many of the stereotypes about welfare programs are unfounded).

So, while I run the risk of sounding like a radical leftist, I’m also just your average citizen, concerned with the uncertain state of our country’s future. I hope that if Obama is the next President, we can see some positive reforms on our economy, though I don’t expect him to single-handedly fix our economic and political institutions. I will say this: if McCain is elected, we are in for 4 to 8 years of the Republican party attempting to prevent the failure of capitalism by any means necessary – no matter how detrimental to our society. If that terrible nightmare becomes a reality, I’ll be the first to apply for a visa to Sweden.

Related links:
AIG bailout: Where does the financial crisis lead next?
U.S. Mortgage Bank Nationalization : Sign of Deepening Crisis
All Over the Board: Capitalism has failed. Period.

What are your thoughts on the burgeoning financial crisis? What should the United States do?

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Mondays are a Bitch and So is She: Michelle Obama

by Kelly

You often hear people say, “Behind every great man there is a great woman.” In Barack Obama’s case, this is true. His wife, Michelle Obama is not only the potential First Lady, but a mother, wife, and lawyer. Educated at Princeton and Harvard Law School, Michelle has proven herself to be both intellectual and hard-working. (To put this in perspective, Cindy McCain went to University of Southern California, where she was a cheerleader).

Michelle also puts her family first, claiming to be a mother to her two daughters primarily, and a wife and then working woman second. So why is a woman who seems to be able to do it all (with style and grace, too) under such attack? Shouldn’t we, as a society, be praising Michelle for being a “Super Woman,” rather than calling her “angry,” “radical” and “unpatriotic”?

I can’t help but attribute the rampant attacks on Michelle’s character to issues of race and gender. If Michelle were white (like Cindy McCain, and every other First Lady in United States history), would she be painted as an “angry black woman”? No. If Michelle were a man, would we be criticizing her for having strong opinions and being outspoken? Hell no.

When Michelle Obama is attacked by the media or by individual citizens, I believe they are overlooking her achievements and integrity and focusing on appearances: she is a black woman. As such, she has neither the privilege of being white nor the privilege of being a man.

I think this great article by the Washington Post entitled “Black. Female. Accomplished. Attacked.” sums up a lot of what I’m trying to get across here far more eloquently. I urge you to take a few minutes to read it over:

“Sad to say, but what Obama has undergone, though it’s on a national stage and on a much more prominent scale, is nothing new to professional African American women. We endure this type of labeling all the time. We’re endlessly familiar with the problem Michelle Obama is confronting — being looked at, as black women, through a different lens from our white counterparts, who are portrayed as kinder, gentler souls who somehow deserve to be loved and valued more than we do. So many of us are hoping that Michelle — as an elegant and elusive combination of successful career woman, supportive wife and loving mother — can change that.”

 

If you watched Michelle’s slot on The View, or read her interviews in magazines such as OK and Ebony, you’d see not a radical angry woman, but a thoughtful, reasonable person who, in my mind, epitomizes what a First Lady should be. Hillary Clinton revolutionized the role of the First Lady, taking it out of the world of cocktail parties, fundraisers and stylish support of one’s husband and into the modern, post-Second Wave feminist society. Hillary took an active role in politics and eventually gained so much experience and exhibited so much drive that she became a Senator in her own right. Cindy McCain, conversely, represents a return to the “traditional role” of First Lady – like Laura and Barbara Bush (and the rest), these women exist to look pretty and serene next to their charismatic, powerful husbands. They serve as a reminder that the President is a family man who the American people can trust. However, in a world where women are able to be President or Vice President (or at least come close to it), why shouldn’t the First Lady be powerful, intelligent and outspoken?

I hope Barack Obama becomes our next President, not just because of his policies and work ethic, but because he has the entire package: a great family to support him and a wife who can hold her own in the social and political aspects of the job.

For further reading about Michelle Obama, here are some articles & links:–> Politico: Michelle Obama Thesis Was on Racial Divide
–> Michelle Obama Watch
–> Meet the Obamas

What do you think of Michelle Obama? Even if you disagree with her husband’s politics, do you think she is an inspirational woman? I’d love to hear all your comments, but be warned: personal attacks on Michelle Obama will not be tolerated.

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The Patriot’s Guide to Hating George Bush

by Kelly

Forget the American flag pin on your lapel, these days you’re not a true Patriot if you don’t support the Bush administration. Yeah I’m talking to you, Liberals! Enough with your legitimate complaints about the Iraq war, the mind-numbingly large deficit (482 billion dollars, baby), or the fact that our country makes the movie Idiocracy seem prophetic rather than comic. Just stop! It’s people like you who are the real terrorists. Instead of checking up on the library records of suspected terrorists we should be locking up Democrats one by one. (Independents, don’t you relax either…you are flip-flopping your way under suspicion as well).But wait! There may be hope for you heathens yet. It seems there is this funny little term called “loyal opposition”. Now, don’t ask me why, but our founding fathers believed that you could disagree with the current administration yet still be Patriotic. I know, I know – blasphemous, isn’t it? Let me explain:

It seems that the original writers of the Constitution didn’t think that everyone had to support the President and Cabinet in power. In fact, one of the basic tenets of the Constitution is that people should uphold and believe in the IDEA of the Constitution whether or not they support its current method of implementation by the government.

“Sweet shitake mushrooms!” you must be shouting. How could I have not thought of this sooner? How come the GOP is trying to paint people like Michelle Obama as unpatriotic for saying she has never been “proud of this country” before? Well, now you know they are misguided. Michelle is safe under the idea of loyal opposition. In fact, Michelle Obama might even be MORE PATRIOTIC than you! She waited faithfully her entire life to see an administration that she could be proud of…now that’s what I call loyal!

So maybe we don’t have to bleed red, white, AND blue to show our faith in the United States. Maybe that American flag you’ve been flying outside your cubicle can be placed back into a drawer (folded neatly of course). Instead, go refuse to put your hand over your chest during the national anthem. Really, I dare you. Seems like freedom of expression is something George Washington and Thomas Jefferson would have wanted.

Yours faithfully,
America’s #1 Fan

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