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End of the Week Links

by Kelly

Sorry this is a day late!

* Hilarious Colbert Report episode feat. Jeff Goldblum

* Interesting and powerful article on the difficulties women face when trying to get their tubes tied — doctors who won’t perform the surgery, and so on.

* Vladimir Putin gambling law banishes Russian casinos to Siberian exile

* Hilarious site: Oh Crap. My Parents Joined Facebook. Speaking of which, my dad actually just friended me…

Hope you all had a great weekend and/or July 4th celebration!
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Gossip Girl Gone Wild — The Nasty Side of Social Networking

by Kelly

I’m a fan of Facebook, to a certain extent. It’s useful as a college student; it makes keeping in touch with old acquaintances easy and it’s a great way to organize parties and other events. Of course, the downside to a social networking site like Facebook is that everyone on your friend list can find out details of your life — even with the addition of privacy settings. This may not bother the millions of people with Facebook profiles, but it can affect your future career or even put you in jail.

juicycampus_screebgrab1So what if there was a social networking site that was anonymous? Enter Juicy Campus. On the surface, it’s great…you select which college you are in, and then you can post anonymously on a board about your fellow classmates. Have a crush on that guy in your chem lab? Tell the world how cute he is. Annoyed by those hipster kids who always loiter in front of the campus coffee shop? Rant away. Juicy Campus is, essentially, an online bathroom wall. It’s anonymous, free, and anything goes.

While this seems like nothing more than a gossip site (and who doesn’t enjoy just a little bit of gossip?), the truth of the site is a little more sinister. As any one with dial-up can attest, anonymity on the Internet leads to a more vicious, non-P.C. discourse. Forums about feminism are trolled by misogynist pricks who seemingly have little else do with their time. Entire websites like 4chan exist primarily for nerdy boys to out-gross each other on /b/ chat. The internet is a breeding ground for prejudice, offensive language and obscenity. So I guess it’s not a surprise that Juicy Campus is quickly becoming notorious for its racist, sexist, and just plain offensive content.

To quote a recent article in the Herald Tribune, “‘Legally, Juicy Campus is fully, absolutely immune, no matter what it runs on its site from users, just like AOL is not responsible for nasty comments in its AOL chat rooms,’ said Michael Fertik, a graduate of Harvard Law School and the founder of reputationdefender.com, a service that helps clients remove defamatory material about themselves from the Internet…Juicy Campus, he said, ‘is not encouraging people to be themselves, it’s encouraging people to be the worst version of themselves.’”

Needless to say, this online gossip mill has been getting out of control. For example, one student threatened to begin a shooting spree at his college. Yet most shocking, in my mind, is the story of Vanderbilt undergraduate Chelsea Gorman who was raped nearby campus, and then left college for a semester to heal and come to terms with her terrifying experience. However, after returning to school she found out someone had posted on Juicy Campus: “what could she expect walking around there alone. everyone thinks she’s so sweet but she got what she deserved. wish i had been the homeless guy that f***** her. [sic]“. Is this vitriol really what passes as gossip these days?

In the spirit of fairness, I checked out the site myself before writing this post. My small liberal arts college boasts only a few pages worth of posts, so I took ten minutes to skim through them. My school is close-knit and I know many people by name or at least have seem them around the dining hall every day. So, imagine my surprise when I saw posts entitled “who has the tightest puss?” and “who has the ugliest dick?” Some of the replies were harmless, but there were many instances where people named names. Some responses were downright awful, like the one that called a girl a dirty, alcoholic slut…and included her full name.

gossip1As I read through the pages, I was tense and apprehensive. I didn’t see any references to my close friends, but I did find a post specifically about the group of girls living in the housing unit next to me. It said where they lived, which is just creepy, and then the poster called them stuck-up, anorexic, and many expletives I don’t care to repeat here. Then, I got to one of the first posts: “Who would you like to have sex with?”. I figured I’d give this a look, already guessing which people would be named. And then I saw my name. Awesome. Apparently someone wants to have sex with me, and his post was detailed enough to include my full name and details about my life. Doubly awesome.

I guess I should be flattered, but if people can praise me on this site, they can also insult me. Needless to say, I’m going to exert as much willpower as I can to avoid Juicy Campus. I think the fact that it promotes prejudice and an anything-goes policy of ripping your classmates to shreds is enough to dissuade me from visiting the site often. That, and I don’t really want to know what my classmates are thinking about me. Some things are better left un-read.

Related Links:
Online campus gossips won’t show their faces — CNN.com
Cruel Intentions — Radar Magazine
How to defeat Juicy Campus — The Colonialist

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The Internet: My Drug of Choice?

by Harlequin

StumbleUpon is my newest obsession. It is truly amazing how well this creation knows me; I am absolutely enthralled with the sites to which it directs me. And now when I sign on to my Amazon account, it shows me items that I might want to purchase – except I already own them. On my Facebook homepage, I am faced with the brutality of the “people you may know” option. Of course I friggin’ know them. I was trying to forget that fact.

My rambling comes to a halt when I realize that I love the internet, but this is a toxic relationship. The computer KNOWS about virtually everything that goes on in my life. So does anyone with basic computer knowledge. With the growing awareness of what everyone is doing at every moment, it seems as if society is headed in the direction of 1984. The government created the Internet during the Cold War, and they still have access to whatever they want. The judicial system patrols Facebook and MySpace in hopes of finding photographs or other personal information that can help prosecute alleged criminals; just look at Joshua Lipton (I tend to think he’s an idiot, but he is far more typical of my peers and myself than I care to admit). I can be a good citizen, take my computer to the Dell offices and ask for assistance – and all I get is the confirmation that my hard drive is destroyed, depleted, dead. Apparently the only way I can retrieve these files is by committing a felony and having my computer seized by the FBI.

Not to mention the ways in which we allow non-governmental sources have access to your private information. In a world that is increasingly paperless, shredding our documents doesn’t do much of anything when our social security numbers, bank account information, even our first pet’s name are floating around out there (somewhere, I am not sure where this alternate universe of the web exists…I always envisioned something space-like). Companies now use personal profiles online to help make hiring decisions. Hackers are always a threat, and identity theft is a problem that has developed mainly out of the internet resources. And now our ex-boyfriends can post private videos and naked pics of us on the Internet (I knew I should have never let him talk me in to that), and the industry of child pornography thrives on its Internet consumers.  Stalking is also much easier these days. I should know, I become obsessive about guys I date when I see their shady “away messages.” It’s to the point where breaking up with someone is even more painful because you can’t seem to escape their presence – you are constantly with him and everyone else until you yank the power cord. Granted I do not show up at their easily available addresses and molest them in the dark of the night. But I could if I wanted to. And looking at the lack of sex in my life lately, it just might come to that.

I hate to sound like a conspiracy theorist, but sometimes I feel as if the Internet is just some tool to trick us into submission. Sort of like Marx’s statement that religion is the opiate of the masses, it seems plausible to think of the Internet as a sort of drug that ends up enabling forces to work against us. I can barely go a day without going on the Internet – I thrive on the constant connection, the ability to go anywhere while sitting on my comfortable bed at my liberal arts school. But I can’t help but let my paranoia take control as I wonder about the true nature and purpose of the world wide web. I absolutely love the way that the world has opened up from this mysterious machine, but what is the price of this opportunity? How do we control an addiction that is so entrenched in our lives and our society that it may well end up controlling us?

I also can’t escape the irony that I am bitching about all of this on an online blog.

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