Gossip Girl Gone Wild — The Nasty Side of Social Networking
by Kelly
I’m a fan of Facebook, to a certain extent. It’s useful as a college student; it makes keeping in touch with old acquaintances easy and it’s a great way to organize parties and other events. Of course, the downside to a social networking site like Facebook is that everyone on your friend list can find out details of your life — even with the addition of privacy settings. This may not bother the millions of people with Facebook profiles, but it can affect your future career or even put you in jail.
So what if there was a social networking site that was anonymous? Enter Juicy Campus. On the surface, it’s great…you select which college you are in, and then you can post anonymously on a board about your fellow classmates. Have a crush on that guy in your chem lab? Tell the world how cute he is. Annoyed by those hipster kids who always loiter in front of the campus coffee shop? Rant away. Juicy Campus is, essentially, an online bathroom wall. It’s anonymous, free, and anything goes.
While this seems like nothing more than a gossip site (and who doesn’t enjoy just a little bit of gossip?), the truth of the site is a little more sinister. As any one with dial-up can attest, anonymity on the Internet leads to a more vicious, non-P.C. discourse. Forums about feminism are trolled by misogynist pricks who seemingly have little else do with their time. Entire websites like 4chan exist primarily for nerdy boys to out-gross each other on /b/ chat. The internet is a breeding ground for prejudice, offensive language and obscenity. So I guess it’s not a surprise that Juicy Campus is quickly becoming notorious for its racist, sexist, and just plain offensive content.
To quote a recent article in the Herald Tribune, “‘Legally, Juicy Campus is fully, absolutely immune, no matter what it runs on its site from users, just like AOL is not responsible for nasty comments in its AOL chat rooms,’ said Michael Fertik, a graduate of Harvard Law School and the founder of reputationdefender.com, a service that helps clients remove defamatory material about themselves from the Internet…Juicy Campus, he said, ‘is not encouraging people to be themselves, it’s encouraging people to be the worst version of themselves.’”
Needless to say, this online gossip mill has been getting out of control. For example, one student threatened to begin a shooting spree at his college. Yet most shocking, in my mind, is the story of Vanderbilt undergraduate Chelsea Gorman who was raped nearby campus, and then left college for a semester to heal and come to terms with her terrifying experience. However, after returning to school she found out someone had posted on Juicy Campus: “what could she expect walking around there alone. everyone thinks she’s so sweet but she got what she deserved. wish i had been the homeless guy that f***** her. [sic]“. Is this vitriol really what passes as gossip these days?
In the spirit of fairness, I checked out the site myself before writing this post. My small liberal arts college boasts only a few pages worth of posts, so I took ten minutes to skim through them. My school is close-knit and I know many people by name or at least have seem them around the dining hall every day. So, imagine my surprise when I saw posts entitled “who has the tightest puss?” and “who has the ugliest dick?” Some of the replies were harmless, but there were many instances where people named names. Some responses were downright awful, like the one that called a girl a dirty, alcoholic slut…and included her full name.
As I read through the pages, I was tense and apprehensive. I didn’t see any references to my close friends, but I did find a post specifically about the group of girls living in the housing unit next to me. It said where they lived, which is just creepy, and then the poster called them stuck-up, anorexic, and many expletives I don’t care to repeat here. Then, I got to one of the first posts: “Who would you like to have sex with?”. I figured I’d give this a look, already guessing which people would be named. And then I saw my name. Awesome. Apparently someone wants to have sex with me, and his post was detailed enough to include my full name and details about my life. Doubly awesome.
I guess I should be flattered, but if people can praise me on this site, they can also insult me. Needless to say, I’m going to exert as much willpower as I can to avoid Juicy Campus. I think the fact that it promotes prejudice and an anything-goes policy of ripping your classmates to shreds is enough to dissuade me from visiting the site often. That, and I don’t really want to know what my classmates are thinking about me. Some things are better left un-read.
Related Links:
Online campus gossips won’t show their faces — CNN.com
Cruel Intentions — Radar Magazine
How to defeat Juicy Campus — The Colonialist
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That is REALLY creepy. I hope you are safe, dollface.
It’s peculiar that eloriane at Gender Goggles was just writing about this. My first reaction was that I’ve never had a Facebook, Myspace, or anything like that and evertyime I’m *literally* begged to get one, I turn peepz down. 19 years of a nerd teaches you not to relive playground nightmares. Facebook et. al are just that to me. And I think you get at something important in this article — the web is not just your typical playground; it’s safe guarded by anonymity which allows our worst internalized sexist, racist, etc beliefs to “shine.”
It brings new meaning to statements like, “Well, you can’t call a woman a cunt in public anymore and get away with it.” Maybe not aloud, but online? Post under “douchebag314″ and you can say whatever you want and get away with it. The Internet is both a blessing and a curse sometimes. I’m still trying to wrangle how much a reconstruction of reality it is (like TV) and how much of it is disgustingly pure reflection.
PS You can’t get lazy with the posts just because I did, dollface. *bangs fist down* I’ve been getting RLG withdrawals!
Haha I know, I know. I’ve been feeling guilty all week about the lack of posts (and the blog was picking up steam with all those feminist posts and discussions, too), but I had finals and a lot of loose ends to tie up. Now I’m free! Expect more updates in the coming days. :-)
I’m so creeped out by Juicy Campus, too! I’ll have to see what eloriane is saying on her blog. I could see this site ruining people’s social lives and making them paranoid. It’s another form of online bullying in some respects.
Oh gawd, that site is awful. I wanna say it got some spotlight on Current TV. It was, of course, portrayed negatively as it should be and not praised.
For my school, one of the posts asks, “Let’s hear who on campus has HIV/AIDS”
I’m kind of surprised though; I go to a pretty big university, and there aren’t too many pages. Also, I was surprised I recognized a name of a gal deemed one of the “Biggest Sluts on Campus”.
Mostly, it seems to be plagued with sorority/fraternity gossip.
I don’t know how Juicy Campus could be considered “networking”.
Ugh.
Urgh. That is very creepy. I read their FAQ, too, and it made me squirm. Posting someone’s full name is okay, and they won’t pull it even if requested? That’s not right.
I, too, read through the comments left by people at my school, and they were very boring. Then again, if I’d found my name, I probably wouldn’t feel that way. What a bunch of crap.
wow i hadn’t heard of juicy campus until now. it sounds like a total pathetic way to get cyber attention! i’ve had so many issues with social networking sites. i prefer to find people in the web through the blogosphere. i deleted my myspace after it caused me sooo much drama and stupid cyberfights, ugh! i’ve been dying to delete my facebook, but some people only communicate via facebook – so it’s difficult…
good post!
and as for that guy who wants to have sex with you – that is REALLY creepy and i hope you don’t find anything nasty about you on the site!!!
That jerk! Let me go beat him up, yo!
RAWRRRR!!!!!!!
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Yeah I’m not gonna lie, it’s really creepy seeing my name on that site. Here’s hoping it’s the last time?
I am torn between my need to boycott such stupidity and my desperate want to see if my school is on there.. Not that my name would be there, I’m external :)
I have facebook and myspace and twitter and a blog, so Im fairly active on the ‘social’ side of the internet, but I always re-read anything I write and think ‘would I let my mum read this? Would I let my future lover/boss/children read that?’ It’s a good censor, imagining that what you write online could be read by your kids in future years.
Hi Girls,
I’m currently a student at Duke and just came across your article and wanted to make a little correction. Chelsea Gorman was NOT a Duke Undergraduate (she went to Vanderbilt, actually) but the site was founded by Matt Ivester, who IS a Duke Alum. Just thought I’d let you know! :)
Sarah
Thanks for the correction Dukiegirl, I’ll make the necessary changes :)
But…I guess we are seeing what some of the world is like. Hostile, angry, childish people–were they already there–is the world getting worse, or has the internet just made them visible?
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